5.5.11

Yes, it's about my tuition kid's father AGAIN!

You're bitchy right? Yes, you're, thats why you're reading this blogpost!
Yes, I've been hating my tuition kid's father! 
You may say, it's damn uncivilized for me to say such things. To hate or curse a tuition kid's father. But wait... Do you know the story? 
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Background:
His "daughter" and wife is from Thailand, 
He's Sporean.
He is not the real father of my tuition kid (at the start when I see him he already keep emphasizing she's not his daughter all)
Trying to tell pple you very nice to accept the daughter?
The daughter is his wife's sister's daughter (simply put it, the wife's niece)
The wife frigging love the niece, so for better future, she brought her over to Sg.
The kid jumped right to P1 without attending preschool and have bad english foundation (its building up though! Getting better!)
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His problem:
He drags my payment, every month without fail.
Supposed to pay at every last lesson of the month, he will drag until the 1-3 days after the next month!
If he let me know earlier, at least I can be prepared,
BUT
He always let me know at the last lesson for each month!

Why I think it is unreasonable? 
Cos the week before payment (say Thurs is payment day), I will inform him one week before (so I will inform him the previous Thurs must make payment. He always say okay)
Then come Tuesday, I will again remind him that the day after need to pay fees. (again, he said okay. For frigging few months he keep like that leh, fuck)
THEN PAYDAY! HE ASK THE WIFE TO CONVEY (The latest scenario):
My husband say 31st April 2011 then can pay you $$$ leh.
Me: Okay
then I realize got no 31st April, I call back!
Then she tell me 30th April, night time he will transfer.

30th April 2011, night (about 11pm):
No $$$ banked in, so I called the husband.
He frigging give me the damn annoyed and angry tone
Him: I SAY 1st May ALREADY RIGHT??!!
I still tell him frigging nicely that your wife told me 30th leh (in one fucking innocent tone)
(CCB I THINK BACK I FUCKING ANGRY YKNW)
(I'm doing my job and getting my pay back is a right thing. You drag my money still dare to raise your voice at me!?? Unreasonable fuckhead-seriously why are you even living?)

1st May 2011 (1045pm):
He fucking haven't banked in my $$$.
Obviously I called, then he say: I JUST ENDED MY WORK, DONE I GO CAN!!??
My mum was there with me at the ATM machine (I nvr apply for the check online thing la) so I called back again to ask about what time he will bank in
He fucking shouted: I GO BANK IN NOW CAN? DONT NEED TO WASH MY HANDS GO NOW CAN?
(yes, you may think he like v poor think all right? then what abt me?)
I nvr do anything wrong leh!
I work, kena dragged pay last minute then know.
Call him he fucking give me attitude?!
EH FUCKING OLD MAN. GET YOUR FACTS RIGHT. You're the one who dragged my payment. If you pay me early, you won't have such troubles. If you take some time during lunch break to bank in the money on 1st May, I won't call you at 1045pm.
Oh and BTW, government banked in money on 1st May la hor... $600 don't tell me you never receive!

Thats only the payment issue. Still got PUT AEROPLANE issue!
3 times! There was 3 times that I went over the kid not there.
First time: She went for the school tuition and the parents didn't inform me. 
(Since first time, forget it)
Second time: She went for her school tuition, AND THE PARENTS DIDN'T INFORM ME AGAIN!
(Since so long alr. Maybe just let it off again)
Third time: Just the next day before the "Second time" (the mum told me the next day can) so next day I came, they fucking not at home again! 
Call the dad, he say they at ICA.
FUCK MAN? JUST MUST THAT TIMING GO?
You're not even concern about your daughter's education...
Seriously, charging you 15$ per hour is damn little. I never complain. I gave my all during the tuition but you all, as parents don't even care (seriously, if you don't even have the money, love and effort to takecare of the kid, don't even adopt her!). So useless still want to act hero. I see my friend loving the dog more than you love your kid lor (if you wna say the kid is not your own, the dog also not my friend's give birth one). 
When a kid calls you her dad/mum, you should already give her what parents should provide. The way I see you are treating her, it's not even love. When she's having tuition in the room, your TV blast so loud in the living room, how you want her to concentrate? Can't you just sacrifice and don't watch for 2hrs?

Why I know he's unreasonable on his own?!
I think he's already problematic when I overheard him quarreling with his tenants. 
He rented one room to 3 China girls and apparently bought a "new" comp (looks older than the comp I left in my storeroom) for them. 
He say they keep using the comp overnight, electricity bills keep rising. And you know what he said!? 
I WANT TO INCREASE YOUR RENT TO $1800 (it was 1500$)
China girls (speaks in Mandarin): So expensive? $300 more? You trying to trick us?
-the next tuition I don't see them anymore.
(as a singaporean, you should know, 300$ can pay your whole house electric bill leh!)
Then I hear the way he quarrel, raise voice only lor. Facts also not right, trying to "pian"-cheat xiao mei mei. I not so dumb.

In any case, I already done my part as a tuition teacher. I'm still a student, earning a living too (not charity organization where I give free tuition). You should be ashamed that you're not a good parent. 
I just hope that you feel guilty that you said:
"Bu yao bu lor!"-Don't tuition la! hang up. 
There are lots of tuition kids out there, but yours really need special attention.
Your kid may be the best in Thailand. But when she's in the Sg education, she must climb up to the standard. What for come and remain the same? As shitty, as sucky?
In any case, I've learnt a valuable lesson and I'm muddafucking proud of myself for standing up and confronting the dad about the issues. Since he cannot take it, so be it. 
He's the one that will lose out in the end.

OH WAIT! WORSE STILL! HE KEEP TELLING THE DAUGHTER TO STAY AWAY FROM MALAYS, INDIANS AND ANG MOH KIDS!?
EH SERIOUSLY WHO THE FUCK YOU THINK YOU'RE TO CRITICIZE OTHERS?
NO MONEY, NO EDUCATION, NO LOOKS, NO MANNERS STILL DARE TO SAY OTHER PEOPLE?! MALAYS ALSO IMPROVING, ENGLISH ALSO BETTER THAN YOURS!
YOU'RE PRIVILEGED TO BE A CHINESE.
BETTER THANK YOUR COUNTRY AND RACE, IF NOT YOU ARE WORSE THAN A DOG.
AT LEAST MALAYS GOT THEIR OWN FAMILY!
YOU???
I THINK DYING WOULD BE A BETTER OPTION FOR YOU.
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Whoa my last sentence too mean. Urghh... heck la! I think thats the only bad thing I've did. 

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