After knowing about this club that is created for women by women, I'm quite disappointed how the females did not protect their own, yet they stand on the extreme. It's not an issue that Female must fight against Male, but they should not degrade their own species to please the another...
Saying things like "A good wife is a good sex worker to her husband. What is wrong with being a whore ... to your husband?"
I totally understand where she's coming from, that women should fulfill men's needs. But thats a little too shallow isn't it? Why not train girls since young as prostitutes then marry them off? Women have sex needs too, we love sex too! When she say that "Sex is a taboo in Asia society" I really disagree. Maybe in Malaysia? But I really don't think sex is a taboo topic here in Singapore.
I have a boyfriend and sex is never our problem. I have friends with boyfriends and girlfriends and sex is also not their problem. My parents are divorced and sex is also not their problem. SEX WAS NEVER THE PROBLEM. It's communication and understanding! So what if your wife dress sexily to greet you everyday and can't help solve the problem you're facing?
Maybe it's shallow to talk about my own relationship and own experiences, but I think it's the best gauge I can have. Furthermore alvin and I are already together for 5yr plus and have known each other bout 6yr plus already. I think thats a lot more than any other newly weds.
Alvin love me so much because of what? Cause I'm his bestest soulmate. I'm the best person he can talk to. I keep his secrets and I understand him. When gossip girls say bestfriend don't judge, I think it's more of good girlfriends don't judge. I have never judged him for his actions, I always supported him. If I find that there's something wrong, I immediately check with him. I will get his explanations and try to understand it. We have times that we almost broke up cause of another party but thats not cause of sex. I think both of us will never find someone better in bed cause we know each other too well; we know the dos and don'ts. What will bring us apart is most likely our differences in ideology. The times that we will love each other less is when the relationship is already on the rocks, when we feel angry for what ever actions they do and try to find fault, being unreasonable, trying to dig on past wounds. All this will just make us hate each other more. Love is mutual and both parties need to talk. We have been talking alot, trying to synchronize our ideas, our opinions about stuffs. It's not easy for us to be together, we really worked it.
Anyways talking about whores out there, it's definitely not easy to keep him from looking. I always remind him, I always tell him that if he sees other girls or have any ill intention, that will make me feel really hurt and will upset me. I don't threaten him that I will leave or whatsoever. I just let him know that he won't want the same to happen to him; he won't want to see me with some other guys right... Your guy will never leave if he know you're THE ONE. Just ask him: Do you think it's worth it to break this relationship for that night of fun?
I think the OWC is really redundant and its out to con money. I think I teach better stuff than they do!!!
I always have this mentality that a relationship is like flying a kite. You should know the logic that when you pull the kite too tight, it will snap. And when you let lose, the kite will come back by itself, and you will have to pull the strings back again. So same thing, if you tie your bf too tight, its gonna be strangling him, he will snap someday. Even if you have a sucky temper, he will also snap! So don't go overboard. Always have friends to hang out with, so he won't feel so suffocated that it's just you and him forever and no friends! Worse thing a girl should do is to ban him from all his friends! Try to share friends, let your girl-friends know his friends so you all can hang together, more topics! But don't try that if his friends really suck!
My writing very not organized, I KNOW. Cause I just woke up and type everything out... Okay I'm gg to bed now. NIGHTS!!!
P.S Whats wrong with writing "CRAVING FOR YOU:(((((" on alvin's wall?! He's MY BOYFRIEND LEH and its not even explicit. zzzz
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