I have always been very curious with this phenomenon where pretty girls always get together with the normal/ugly guys and good looking guys always hang with not so pretty girls. Seldom you will see a SUPER HANDSOME GUY WITH A SUPER CHIO GIRL. Oh the last category, the ugly guys with ugly girls, they are all over the place and nobody cares or talks about them! (Okay la just kidding about the last part... hahaha so mean)
Let me continue... What do you think will be in the not so good looking people's mind when they get to date the hotties? Fear that they may lose them anytime? Or do they not even see their difference?
Frankly speaking, I know how I look and I do judge myself too... I know I will never date a guy cause he's good looking. Maybe it's cos I think he will throw his weight on me, like he will take me for granted, act to what he like and not respect my opinions. Yes, I always stereotype! To me, I don't see the glory or fame you can get out of having a super good looking boyfriend/girlfriend that you can bring around to flaunt. Worse when they cheat on you with your bestfriend.
Maybe it's really practical to say this but seriously if you have no money, brains or networks
(especially money) , don't ever ever dream of keeping someone hot!
Okay before this gets too one-sided, what do you think is in the mind of that hottie when he/she don't mind someone average looking?
The most common one, obviously MONEY!!!! Okay maybe they really love the normal human?? Oh about this point, alot of good looking people (I THINK) always like to look for long term partner who are nice, VERY NICE. You know, very compassionate, kind, forgiving, caring, loyal, someone who really loves them wholeheartedly... I think that is very important, because (I THINK) good looking people obviously know they are good looking, so they will not tolerate any shits from people they think is not worth their time.
It's quite dumb for me to type so much about looks yet not defining them, but like you know Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. So I can't tell you who falls under what category. It's quite personal. Especially there some people whom many see as average looking, yet they see themselves one grade higher than others.
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